The butt is just bait. This blog post is entirely unrelated to that beaut of a bum.
Today, I’m going to take a departure from my normal advice giving blog post style and participate in a little something called a Blog Hop.
This really cool thing happened where blogger extraordinaire, The Sex Geek, contacted me about being part of this chain-letter-esque questionnaire wherein which she answered a series of questions and linked to The Fucking Facts (and other inspiring blogs, such as Cuntext and Born Whore) and now I will do the same.
The questions are geared towards established authors with careers and book deals and all them things. Seeing as how I don’t have a book deal (yet), I’m going to reframe some of them as being related to blogging. And I will try, when I can, to slip in some dirty words and bits of advice, just to make it all worth your while.
What is the working title of your next
book blog post?
As stated, my “next book” is a non-thing. I don’t even have “a book”. But, in the mean time, my next blog post will be titled “Slurring Smut From Your Word Hole” and it will be all about long distance lovin’. Keep your eyes peeled.
Where did the idea come from for
the book the blog?
I started writing this blog just over a year ago now. It was something I finally began after having thought about it for years. The experience of working at a sex-positive sex shop had really brought up a lot of my own personal hang ups regarding sex, and allowed me to look at the hang ups of others as well. Luckily, my job at Venus Envy allowed me the support and the resources to work through any funny feelings I had (and still sometimes have) about fucking. But, it made me wonder where other folks go to talk about and learn about sex in a positive and anti-oppressive atmosphere. And, considering how many strangers come into Venus Envy and disclose to myself and my co-workers their very intimate insecurities surrounding sex, I am led to believe that there aren’t a lot of places to do this kind of work. So, I started blogging in response to this. I wanted there to be a really accessible space where people could read about sex. I wanted this space to create a dialogue that would include all people, regardless of their gender, sexual orientation, abilities, class, educational background, ethnicity and race. It’s an ambitious desire. And I’m not sure that this blog is really achieving all that. But I’m still trying. The Fucking Facts is only a year old! It’s just a bebe! There is still so much time and space for things like guest bloggers, book deals, and all my other hopes and dreams coming true.
What genre does
your book your blog fall under?
Huh. I’ve never been good at categorizing things. Remember that time I tried to define my sexuality and called it “poop brown”? Ya, that happened. If I can’t define myself, you can only imagine how daunting I find this question. However, in the interest of obedience and following the blog hop rules, I’ll go with The Fucking Facts being called a feminist, sex-positive, shit-talking, queer-ish blog.
Which actors would you choose to play your characters in a movie rendition?
Again: I still don’t have a book deal, and I feel sure no one will be making a movie rendition of my blog. But, if there were to be a movie rendition of my life then I want to play myself and I want Jiz Lee to play my lover and maybe it can be a porno and maybe we can do it in an elevator? Ya, that’s what I want.
What is the one-sentence synopsis of your
The Fucking Facts tries to get us all hot n’ horny, reminding us that we’re all Total Mega Babes who deserve all the dirty sex we want, without shame and with consent.
Will your book be self-published or represented by an agency?
This question is irrelevant.
How long did it take you to write the first draft of your manuscript?
It takes me an embarrassingly long time to write anything. Case in point: I was supposed to have posted this questionnaire on Wednesday.
books blogs would you compare this to within your genre?
If you’re looking for another sex-positive blog by another sexual health educator, check out Megan Butcher’s Radial Symmetry. I’m especially into the “Your Weekly Dose” section where she posts bits of dirty flash fiction.
I’m also pretty into Shameless, which is a rad magazine and blog for “girls and trans youth” officially, but I think it’s great for everyone, regardless of age.
Oh, and, I think and hope that the way that I talk about disability stuff, when I choose to talk about it, is kind of like the way Lulu talks about it at the awesome blog Where’s Lulu? .
Who or what inspired you to write
this book this blog?
I already covered this. But, some other inspiring blogs that I reference when I need some writing stimulation are: Mia Mingus’ Leaving Evidence or Lee’s Access Culture: Queer Crip Commentary if I need to read the words of other radical disability activists. And then Fuck Yeah Dykes and Hot Milk and Cold Women if I just need to look at babes and pretty things.
What else about your
book blog might pique the reader’s interest?
Hm. I’m not sure. I actually am constantly surprised that people seem to be reading these dirty little essays I’m putting out into the world. Perhaps all your interests are piqued because I’m a self-proclaimed inexpert expert who doesn’t often knows what she’s doing but is never too shy to share all her sexual slip ups and fucking faux-pas’? Or maybe ya’ll just read me because you’ve got a hard-on for alliteration, like I do? Or maybe it’s just because you’re my pals? Is it just my friends reading this blog anyway? Who are you out there?